Partner left after 9 yrs - reconciled now married!

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Thanks Mish.. yes Michelle, was thinking of you, we need to be in somewhat friendly or any contact I guess to expect an apology. H's MF was unfaithful to his ex fiance 17 times.. 17 !! The guilt and regret still eats him up and he still loves her, 2 longterm girlfriends later.. he said he wishes he could apologise to her and marry her.. I told him to write her a letter, but he said he couldnt possibly, it wouldnt be fair on her to "rake it all up", best to just leave her be to get on with her life. I disagreed with him! Heartfelt apologies and explanations are healing, no matter how many years they take.

Yesterday was our anniverary.. 12 years since our first date/kiss (thats English people for you! ). I realised H normally always arranged surprises and anniversary weekends, so I said I would arrange a day of surprises and treat him like a Princess to say thanks for being so brilliant and looking after me whilst pregnant .

So I made him brekkie in bed, then took him for an amazing 2 course Sunday lunch, followed by the afternoon in a swanky Spa with infinity pool and paid for him to use the Gym too.. then he had a surprise Aromatherapy Swiss Relaxation massage (which he loved !) and then I whisked him for dinner at a fancy fish restaurant we went to years ago on a romantic break and then to the see 127 hours!! He said it was the best day ever and he did indeed, feel like a Princess

I think thats filled his love bank up for the remainder of my pregnancy !