Well this morning I gave her the new Pottery Dish filled with small and large bags of Gummi Bears along with card. I made sure the card did not say "I love you" in it and I just signed it secret admirer.
She said thanks and that was that. No real excitement or joy, just thank you.
So I was not expecting any thing other than that anyone, but at least I did what I wanted without chasing her or pushing the "love" thing on her.
Did I do ok??
Me - 39 yrs old Wife - 39 yrs old Married - 18 years Together - almost 21 year Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10 Bomb Dropped in May 2010 Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out