Well this morning I gave her the new Pottery Dish filled with small and large bags of Gummi Bears along with card. I made sure the card did not say "I love you" in it and I just signed it secret admirer.

She said thanks and that was that. No real excitement or joy, just thank you.

So I was not expecting any thing other than that anyone, but at least I did what I wanted without chasing her or pushing the "love" thing on her.

Did I do ok??


Me - 39 yrs old
Wife - 39 yrs old
Married - 18 years
Together - almost 21 year
Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10
Bomb Dropped in May 2010
Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out