Not Sure Which Way to Go

[downandoutintn]

One more thing I just thought about. She keeps bringing up the D and the M and the negatives of it all completely unprovoked. Can someone please give me tips on how to sidestep this convo? It seems like she constantly trying to do the same things that I did to her in the beginning except the complete opposite. I was trying to talk her into the reconciliation and she is trying to tell me all the reasons we shouldn't be together. Does that make sense?

Any way I would like to know some of the things you guys did to keep your S from focusing on the negatives.