I don't think that you should say jack to your FIL. He was in the wrong. Nothing you do here is going to help you. You apologize, you look weak... You try to open a dialogue, it may go badly and then your W has more to be p!ssed at you about. You open a dialogue, it goes well, I think that you probably still end up looking weak bc you let your FIL get to you in the first place...
I just don't see the benefit right now... maybe in the future man... but not now.
BITS Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
A leprachaun tripping on acid...that's funny sh!t. I used to resemble that comment in my days following The Grateful Dead.
Don't get me wrong, I wasn't suggesting that I get support from my W, what I meant was that if I can't get her support, then I don't need her digs at me either.
I know it all has to be positive. I really do, but I am exhausted by this whole ordeal. I guess it all goes back to the fact that there isn't anything really gonna happen until I find a job. I just need something to grasp on to. I haven't had it yet. If it doesn't come soon, I don't want to think about what I might think...
M42 W38 D5D7 M8 Living as 'roomates' since 9-12-10 Moved out 1-7-11 FIL threatened to kill me 1-20-11
MJ, We have not heard from you in quite some time. How are you doing? How is the job search going? Starting to worry about you. Drop us a line when you have a chance, buddy!
BITS never walk alone!
FOBD
Me: 39 W: 36 T: 15 yrs M: 9 yrs S: 09/10
So you can get on with your search, baby And I can get on with mine And maybe someday we will find, That it wasn't really wasted time...
