Better Days ARE Coming For All of Us...

[FellOnBlackDays]

Lost,
Good to hear you are doing well. And I am very excited that you got to spend some time with H today. I love your idea about the list, but be careful. When my W and I were working with an MC, he warned us about the pitfalls of "ultimatums." Don't make the list come off like an ultimatum because he may turn tail and run again. Pose the list as something you are going to do together as you both work toward a common goal. We both know your list will be more for him to work on, but pose it as a common goal with a common task. That way he doesn't feel singled out and won't get cold feet again. JMO.

I am glad you are doing well. It always lifts my spirits to hear good news. Take care!

BITS never walk alone!

FOBD