The only question that leaves me with is this... if an 'emotional divorce' is all that is needed to relieve someone from living up to their marriage vows, then why do we have marriage at all? Why not just an "emotional marriage"? I mean, I guess these are all really just words that we use... but what do M vows mean if it is as simple to say... "I'm now divorced so I don't have to live up to what I promised you" ??
But now, those vows mean very much to me. I want them to mean something. I want them to mean something to my W.
This is a big fear of mine, Denver. When I made mistakes in the past, I felt terrible because I always wanted to FULLY live up to my vows. It was important to me. But for the W that can walk away and break every vow possible ... how much can the vows really mean to a woman like that? How could it really be that different in the future?
B.I.T.S
Formerly known as onStepAtATime Me:31 W:31 T:13 yrs M:8 yrs D: 20 months ILYBNILWY: 9/22/10 "I want a separation" 1/05/11
