Zen, your plan for V-Day is awesome!! Tomorrow would have been my parent's 40th anniversary, but my father passed 11 years ago. My brother, sister and myself are going to spend the evening with her tomorrow night to make her feel better. I have promised myself that I will not bring up my sitch at all tomorrow night. The whole night will be about her ONLY! Gosh, I really miss my dad. He was my best friend and the best father a guy could ever have. This whole damned S thing would be so much easier if he were here to help me and guide me.

Hang in there sweetie!

BITS never walk alone!

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...