Dixie,
This is a tough one. Part of me would cancel too, but part of me also knows that this might be some unnecessary "game playing." I don't know what to tell you. You do need to get him on the defensive as he has been messing with you for too long.

I just don't feel very good this weekend and I am even less sure about the advice I am giving out tonight. I just wanted to let you know that I am here and thinking about you.

Hey, what model plane did you fly today? I used to fly on aircraft while I was in the Navy.

BITS never walk alone!

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...