Only you can answer these questions Scylia. I would love to be able to give you the magic elixir here. It sounds to me that you have some seriously soul searching to do right now.

The advice that I'd give you... do what is best for Scylia... take the road that is going to make Scylia have a happy future.

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Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce