Denver, I agree with you 100%. I think all this never-ending talk that she is spewing out about her "new life" is her trying to convince herself that she is doing great. But, I don't think she really believes that. If she did, she wouldn't need the constant affirmation from everyone around her.

2step, I also agree with you. Maybe the wedding will be a great chance to DB. She might even spend some time that day missing me for the first time. There I will be, looking good in a tux, doing my "funny guy" routine at the reception and she will have to sit across the room unable to be with me. I am really going to have to sit down and work on a plan to follow that day so I don't blow it. I don't want to "wing it" as that might not go well.

BITS never walk alone!

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...