Thanks grr... I know that you are right. And ultimately, I don't care. These are immature concerns that I've always had. I'm trying to deal with them, but figured that I might as well put it out there... since I've put everything else out there! smile

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Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce