BC they are insecure with themselves at that moment or in general. I wouldn't worry too much about that. She is trying to convince herself that her life is grand more than she is trying to convince anyone else.
I think that you are right about your family coming off like roses... AND about the fact that all of this will remind her about what she is giving up. I have a feeling that this will lead to some great DBing opportunities for you.
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce