Really hard time.... III

[what next?]

Yeah, that's what I'm trying to come up with. My goal is to get her to vent to me so that I can validate her for pretty much the first time. The problem is that she is super hard to get to open up and I blew it so many times before that it will only be more difficult now. I don't have the built in excuse to contact her like I did when we were ironing out the details so now I have to have a plan. I mean... the ink isn't even dry so I think I have to back off a little and let it have time to sink in. I want to let her initiate but really she doesn't much (although she did today about some information to get bills changed into her name)

I know that the way that I have reacted to her for the past month has to have thrown her for a loop. It feels SO good to do things right and see the surprise in her eyes

Now I just have to make sure that when she is ready to open up it is to me and not someone else.