2step, I hope you don't mind, but I am going to pass on the offer for a testicle. HA!
MJ, good to hear from you. Please listen to 2step, he seems to be the Jedi Master of this stuff right now. I would give you some advice, but the last couple of days have been rough and I am probably not the one you should be listening to right now. Unfortunately, I am very deeply rooted in a "defeated" attitude right now and you should not spend a whole lot of time with me. None the less, I do want to wish you luck and tell you to continue the fight for now. Take to heart what you are told here. It can work. Look how far Lost and 2step have gotten using these methods.
Keep your head up, buddy! Look at your moving back in as a chance to do some face-to-face DB'ing. Many of us here would kill to be in the same house with our spouse.
BITS never walk alone!
FOBD
Me: 39 W: 36 T: 15 yrs M: 9 yrs S: 09/10
So you can get on with your search, baby And I can get on with mine And maybe someday we will find, That it wasn't really wasted time...