Came to get my son for his bath, and he screams for mom. All he wants is his mom and to bathe in her tub in her room. My wife comes and asks me if it's okay, and I said Ok.
1. Should I have agreed? 2. Just an observation: Is this what they say about children learning how to divide and conquer their parents? When mom is anywhere in the house, I almost can't do anything that otherwise would be exclusively mine and his private time together. When she's not here, my son is a totally different character; he doesn't have conniptions or difficulty going to bed. 3. On the other spectrum, I really hope my wife is not feeding my son negative vibes/words/distancing about me, making me the less wanted person in our son's life. Nothing I do seems to affect her assumption that I'm not a good father. She doesn't trust me, so how can she trust me with our son?
It really breaks my heart that she and her family seem to be trying their darnest to whittle my time (and relationship) with him. I love my amazing boy to death and my wife wants to tear this marriage down, so why does she feel justified to tear up another relationship, I.e. A child with both his parents? Satan, how I loathe thee.
