The unexamined life is not worth living

[Denver_2010]

2Step... thanks for the laugh man!! I like the covert idea!!

Scylia... all I can really say to you is that I have a much better understanding of what you are feeling than I have ever had before. Listen, we are all human beings, with human needs, and with human frailties. When we are abused in some way, whether it be physical or emotional, we are prone to succumb to our... needs and frailties.

I am trying to accept this is what happened to my W... what I helped happen. It is tough. But honestly, my W would never allowed for this to happen if I had not treated her the way that I did. She has always been fiercely loyal to her family, friends, and... to me. I took advantage of that quality.

I obviously can't tell you what to do with your own feelings. However, I AM a betting man, and if someone would take me up on it, I'd bet a million dollars that someday... someday, my W is going to look back on this whole ordeal and feel A LOT of guilt. Maybe not guilt to me... but guilt for violating her own moral code that she has always held so dearly.

I'd think about that before you do anything that you may regret in the future.

BITS
Denver