Dixie, Dixie... You gotta have a killer's instinct here! You have your H on the hook. He's beginning to feel just what you want him to feel... that he's losing control over you!!!!

Dixie, this is why your H feels that he can do whatever, whenever when it comes to his W. He believes that he has, and will continue to have, control over the situation with his W. He believes that he could never, ever possibly lose you.

How long has it been since he lived in your home Dixie? Why do you think that is? It's bc he believes that he doesn't have to buy the cow... get what I mean?

IMO, you have got to take advantage of this opportunity here. Keep pressing this. Cancel the dinner. Your H won't have any idea of what hit him!!!

You're doing great Dixie!!!! Honestly.

BITS
Denver

P.S. I hope that i wasn't too harsh with this post Dixie. I know that this stuff is hard... very, very hard. Just remember, it is easier for us to see the forest from the trees than it is for you bc we are on the outside looking in.

I am in your corner here!!


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce