H not using the threat of S every time that you are not perfect? No. I agree with 2Step.
H's own issues that need to be worked on for your M to be healthy? Yes. I think that you may have a bit of control here bc your H wants to come home. I think now would be a good time to set a few boundaries.
For one, no OW! At work or anywhere else!
I definitely think that should be a boundary you set before he moves back.
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
