Hello JustStunned, Thank you for the post. Im sorry for your situation. I have read the DB books thats what lead me to this board. Could you tell me what all the different "codes" mean. I understand some but im trying to figure out others. I thought with each day things would get easier but i find them getting harder. I have started the LRT, leaving him alone, no phone calls, texts, emails, etc. Its just so hard to know what hes thinking when theres no communication. I just want the chance to see if anything is fixable. He told me the other day he was happy with me at different times in our marriage but obviously not now. I guess the OW showed him some happiness he had not seen in awhile. I deep in heart, feel this isnt what he wants, (D), but doesnt know how to deal with it in any other way. Its the easy way out for him. Thanks for listening.
