You sound a bit discouraged 2Step. I really don't think that you should be. I think that her actions right now are to be expected. Remember, she is working through things too. You have to give her the time and space to do it. I have a really strong feeling that you are NOT 'out of sight out of mind'.

Stay positive and KNOW that you are making progress... even if it seems that you're not.

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Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce