Need Advice!! Not sure on next move? Part 2

[Denver_2010]

Dixie - First, you did an absolutely AWESOME job with that conversation... AND with the FB photos. BRAVO!!

Now, here's my advice... call him on Wednesday and cancel. Tell him that you had something come up and can't meet him. Then go do something fun on Thursday night instead... post a photo on FB. I know that this sounds childish, but remember the goal here with your sitch... we need to get your H flustered about how much fun you are having, why you're not pursuing him, and thoughts of losing you!

Next, when you reschedule, tell him that you don't have the time to meet him half way. Tell him to meet you someplace closer to where you live.

Everything that is going on now bw you and your H is about control. Your H HAS had it, he WANTS to keep it, but he feels it slipping away. Wrestle it away from him Dixie!!

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Denver