I started to read your original sitch and realized I had read yours a long time ago. I'm going to try and dig through some of your middle ones and catch up.
In the meantime, everyone keep your eyes peeled for dixiegal from newcomers. I think her h might be MLC and suggested she come read some of the women from over here. Hopefully, she'll post here too. I hope that ok that I asked her to do that!
Hugs, sweet girl, hope that you had a nice weekend.