OK.. I initially agreed to the D, but asked for a week or two to get my thoughts together.. Do I just keep my mouth shut about the D or the R at all? and see when she brings it up again? Or i am just prolonging the inevitable ? We have gone to spending almost no time together virtually overnight, by my request after the MC recommended that, but I am not sure that this isn't hurting any chances of Reconciling? Had to go to an event for my son today, and we did sit together. Really lost on how to implement the LRT correctly. I have read it over and over, but I am not sure if I should be pulling away, or just GAL.. and keep taking it day by day? Any comments from others experiences?


Me-43,W-41
Married 18 years
Together 20 years
S12, S13
Wife EA - 3-2009
Reconciled
WAW-9-2009
Reconciled again 2-2010
Bomb- 12/30/2010
Asked for a Divorce 2-8-2011
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