How to deal w/Embarassment of MLC? HELP!!!!

[BlindTEENA]

Hello Markk
Thanks so much for responding to my post. Sorry to hear about your sitch. Question, did you ask your wife to move out eventually or did she move out on her own? A month after my husband moved into the livingroom I told him that if we were going to be "separated" that he had to move out b/c the living situation was getting awkward and unhealthy for me. Wondering now if this was the right thing to do.

My counselor did make me realize that a person who may be having an affair that they are trying to cover up can also display erratic behaviour so I wonder at times if it really is a crisis or an affair. My husband is only 27 but he does seem to exhibit many of the same behaviours of a person in a MLC. I agree that it does seem like an alien has stole his body. It breaks my heart everytime I see him because I murn the old him.

I just ordered the DB book and I have decided that I am going to give myself a year to hand around and will have to move on after that. I love him and want my marriage to work but I cannot hang around forever.
Its so hard not to start believing the things that they say after hearing it over an over again.

Also how did you deal with the FB situation? Did you just try to ignore it? Social networking makes this whole experience even harder.
I'll be praying for you and your family as well!