I respect the boundaries Personally I don't have an issue with the response, we want to be compassionated but we don't need to become jelly fish in order to get there.
As far as the first part of your post goes they text was very revealing to me.
This is the sitaution I believe my W and I are. I also believe she feels as if she tried everything. More importantly I believe that if she felt there was a way to fix it she would probably take it, however she feels there is nothing left that can be done.
How do you get passed that? Reconciliation is a lot of work but both parties have to agree to the work if only one party believes it is possible then what?
