I'm so sorry that you had to experience the very thing all of us here dread - Unfortunatus Divorcicus. Pardon my rusty Latin, but I just said a prayer for you and hope you had a good nights sleep by the time you read this.
This sense of power our WAS now have is addictive, which is probably what coaxes them out the marital door, sadly. My wife is definitely hooked. Just hope the side effects kick in soon, you know?
Alamo - thank you for your prayer. I did have a decent nights sleep for a change so you must have a pretty good connection!
WAS are just at a crossroads. The illusion that they are happy to themselves, to others and to us is just baffling. They can only be hooked for so long. I really believe that. You hang in there yourself.
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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11