New Court Date set.....

[zengypsy]

I need a pair of leopard print shoes. I bought a leopard print bra and panty set and that just totally made me feel like I kick butt!!!

Gypsy, it is just a piece of paper. I keep talking about one of my closest friends who divorced his wife and then remarried her again. I know it happens. A lot more than people think.

I completely understand about how that piece of paper caught you. I am an amateur genealogist. I do a lot of research that includes gathering newspaper articles, deeds, birth, marriage and death certificates. I hate getting the death certificates in the mail. I mean I know the relatives are dead, but after awhile they are alive to me and then the death certificate comes and it gets me down. Your reaction is that to the 1000th power. There isn't a thing wrong with you.

I am glad that you made the decision to continue on DB'ing. I am glad that Gypsy keeps shining through. I honestly want to hang out with Gypsy all the time because you just keep me laughing. You have such an infectious personality...

Gypsy, are you having interactions with your H?

LIS

LIS: I titally get it! Isn't retail therapy wonderful?! I showed my friend the shoes and she said if your H wasn't such an a$$, all you'd need are those shoes and a black bra/panties. He doesn't kow what he's missing. I said that's why he's an a$$!!! LOL

I appreciate your story about your friend and his wife getting remarried again. How long were they divorced? Did you post that on a thread somewhere? It does happen more often than people think. I'm hoping and praying I will be one of those people. On the same token, marriage is just a piece of paper too as some folks have pointed out to me.

Thanks for encouragement LIS. And thank you for always having such sweet things to say about me. You said things that my H used to say to me and it's really nice to hear them again because it shows me that my hard work continues to pay off. And, you are making that consensus about me without ever having met. If he only got to know me now, he would see that those things are still there and have always been, they just got camouflaged along the way.

I am having no interaction with H LIS and that's what makes it so hard. He only contacts me if it has something to do with the D. To be honest, I have no reason to contact him either. We have a dog that we got together and I had hoped that would keep us connected, but it hasn't. He can't even speak about the dog because when he left me behind, he left our dog behind too. And that has been very painful for him.

Hope your having a good Sunday LIS - Zen