Thanks for responding. When he told me that he wanted to be separated we were doing the in house separation thingy. He was still too confused, embarrassed (to go to his mothers house) and scared to actually separate. My Therapist suggested that I not live in limbo anymore and I actually agreed with her at the time. I told him that if he wanted a seperation that he had to find another place to stay. I couldnt live in separate rooms anymore and wondering what time he was coming home or who was texting him every time his phone beeped was making me crazy. So he moved into his moms house
After only two days at his mom house he called me and said that he wanted to come home and that "maybe he was going through something" etc. I couldn't believe it! But I told him that I thought that he was missing the house and not me. It was not possible that a week earlier he was 100 positive that he wanted to separate and now wanted to come back home. Anywo, since then he has said that he doesnt think that we could ever reconcile at that he wants a divorce. I was absolutely floored. Everything is moving really fast which is why I don't believe what he is saying. His words and actions are all so irrational. I don't know if I am strong enough to wait around for him to get out of this phase and though right now I 100% want my marriage to work I dont know that I wont resent him after what he has done/is doing to me. Also I have been staying buy but honestly it feels so forced at times. All I want is to cuddle and watch a movie with my husband. I feel very hopeless at this point.
Me: 27 H: 27 M:5 years Together: 9 years No Children Bomb: 1/1/11 ILYNILWY & Wants Separation Moved Out: 1/30/11 Has not filed yet but says that he does not want to reconcile
