That sounds totally sucky. But says yet again something about HER character and insensitivity, doesn't it?
I know it may be hard to hear right now but you are SO LUCKY to find this out about her now and not after 20 years and three kids. Trust me on this.
Your goal right now is to focus on building a better you - we ALL have things we need to work on in ourselves - and to figure out how and why you ignored the red flags about her, so that you choose better next time.
