You weren't kidding when you said our h's sound like they could be long lost brothers.
My h has kind of been hovering this weekend, so I am laying low on the boards right now.
I think you are dead on about setting a boundary on how he can speak to you. It's just not ok for them to verbally rip into us. I know for myself that the things he would say were so venomous that it left me speechless. It would be hours later or the next day before my mind could even form a response. I have learned to slow wwwaaaayyy down and take time before I speak.
Do they take a class on words that hurt the most??
