Anyone out there that can give advice on dealing with all of the embarrassment that comes along with a spouses MLC? I see alot of advice on how to deal with the shock, hurt, anger etc but what about the embarrassment. My WAH only hinted that he may want a divorce to me a week ago and now he has a social networking page up, with his single status etc. We have mutual friends on the network and I am beyond humiliated and hurt. This erratic behaviour is what makes me question whether he is indeed in crisis mode. It is almost like he purposely tries to hurt me; alot of resentment and anger there. The old him is long gone. Please help me!
Me: 27 H: 27 M:5 years Together: 9 years No Children Bomb: 1/1/11 ILYNILWY & Wants Separation Moved Out: 1/30/11 Has not filed yet but says that he does not want to reconcile
