Maybe some things will get said that have needed to be said, from both of us. We haven't had any type of real discussion in over 16 months. There will be no expectations on my part. If it gets to the point of abusive or ridiculous, I will cut him off.
Just because he no longer wants me as his wife will not give him free rein to treat me with disrespect no matter how POd he is. I will remind him, if I have to, that I have treated him with respect through out this and my boundary is that he do the same to me. Either that or he can talk through his L to my L.
