Thank you Mila for your support. It is much appreciated.
Brook, thank you for your support and kind words. I know your advice comes from experience, and I am grateful to you for paying it forward.
Once H finds out about my L and I receive his spew for going against his 'wishes', he will then do his vindictive best to punish me. When I find out what that is I will no longer be nervous and can get down to the business of getting divorced. It is the anticipation for me that is the worst. I am trying to not let it 'get to me'.
I am not mind reading. I lived with this man for 27 years. I have seen how he is to people that he believes have crossed him.
My conviction was to be fair in this, and it still is. Where H will have a problem is what my state deems fair and what H thinks is fair are two different things. This will be H's problem to deal with, not mine.
