Yes, I know you are right Denver. Sloooooooooooowwww... it's the name of the game. I need to have another talk with him. Not sure how to approach it. When he was here working on things, things would go well for awhile, then I would do something to piss him off and the whole separating talk would start again. I am not perfect. I am not close to perfect. I try hard. But that's the best I can do. I am going to screw up sometimes. But I cannot handle him threatening separation every time I screw up. Now, maybe he's past that phase because I called his bluff. But, should I say something or just let it alone?
