Trusting, I have followed your posting for a long time, and think you handle your difficult situation very well. However, and a small 2 x 4 is coming up here, I think at present you are still involved with what your h is doing. I have just read HBs posting to Tadpole, reminding him that we need to focus on ourselves, and leave them to complete their journey.
It is really hard when they appear to resurface, as yours did. We get used to dealing with the crazy and mean MLCer and then they pop out and do 'sorry and nice' for a bit, and it is destablizing [I speak from experience here!]
Please take a step back, and stop counting their vacations, and having any interest you don't absolutely need to in his life. Someone asked me recently is I knew where my exh was currently, and I hadn't got a clue, and found I really wasn't interested.
