Hi All, Just an update really, i stayed well in the dark then just over two days later i get a text asking for a natter online. Said i would be a few minutes, took my time and went on. She asked how i was, all general chit chat no R talk. Told me about houses she was going to look at, would need sme stuff from me once she got one, you know knife twisting stuff, then smack in the middle of it all, came an "I miss you", i just said miss you too and carried on with the talk. She said she had a stressful week, didnt feel well, i said sorry you feel ill, and have been stressed then again carried on. Then again came another surprise, "wish i was there with you " i replied with, "same here" and again carried on. She spoke of a valentines dinner where she is (all girls), i didnt respond. We had another "wish i was there with you" i didnt respond this time, i said its late better get to bed which she agreed, i said good night Angel x, she replied good night Honey xxxxxxxxxx, so there you have it, now what, try and stay doing as im doing i guess, any help would be so good right now, hope i acted right, shes looking at houses soon, guess i feel a kind of panic, second stage of divorce very close too, thanks for being here everyone.....kevc