Chrysalid - I hope that it did not appear as if I was irritated with your post. I just used my response to vent a little.
I'm feeling some anger this afternoon. Don't know why... I just am.
no worries.. didn't take it like that at all
i have a cheating H who doesn't believe he cheated and he in his heart and in his mind firmly believes this and affirms this belief to others .. so how can I convince him that he did ? I can't.. and I won't but I cannot let that be an obstacle if I want to get to the next level. His affair with the OW drove me insane and i admit i was an irrational lunatic with the way I handled the sitch no wonder I drove him further into her arms.. he couldn't wait to get away from the psycho at home.. lol
It's what you do now that counts, forgiving her and understanding will certainly take months.. take your time, be patient and do the best you can and for goodness sakes keep venting here !!
nicely said hope and figgeroni i'm not as eloquent with words as some of you are... lol
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"Good memories tell you that your past was worth it, bad ones tell you that you were strong enough to go on"
