An update. This morning I received another threaten with court text. Apparently, she wants to claim both of our children for her 2010 taxes. The decree specifies which parent gets to claim which child. She is stating that I am behind in my child support and that the decree specifies that if there is a deficiency in child support, no children can be claimed. However, the only reason I would be behind is she had made the child support obligations effective from the date of separation (Feb 2010) and not the date of finalization (Sept 29). This put me in arrears 8 months, and I have been making double (sometimes triple) payments since to catch up.

I had to inform her today that I already filed and claimed my child as per the decree.

She also informed me that her parents are likely to take me to court as well. The land investment that we are upside down on is one that we'd entered into with her step father. I don't think she really understands that I will be protected from this under my BK.