How about a spa gift certificate just for her? Maybe a red sweater or red PJ's with a nice "thinking of you" card? Or maybe some flowers (no red roses)...

If you can do something small that makes it look like you planned for weeks, it would be big! The thought is so much bigger then the gift.

Maybe you can get her something small she always wanted? Something she mentioned in the past. It will subtly show that you are listening.

M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012