The unexamined life is not worth living

[Denver_2010]

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Uh oh, then just read my post later. [/quote]

LOL... that's okay Hope. Your post actually made me feel better. It was a good, yet subtle, 2x4 to my head. Just what I needed...

But, are we putting the cart before the horse? She said she's interested in saving it but she's not back yet. So have you had any time to think about where to go from here? What plans do you have? Valentine's Day?

Yes, we are still putting the cart before the horse. W and I left it still up in the air as to what we are going to do. She told me that I need to process the info re OM and let her know where I come out on everything. She told me to take "days, weeks, even months" to do this. I don't know how long I will actually need. I think that I've already made the decision to accept the facts and move on to a better and healthier M. But I do need to process through some emotions. And who knows, she could still change her mind. I'm not counting on anything quite yet.

As for Valentine's Day? Well, I ordered flowers to be sent to her classroom where she teaches. I had set this up before I learned everything that I have learned in the past 48 hours, but I still feel comfortable with this.

I don't have any other plans on how to go from here. I really haven't had much time to think about it. She is in St. Louis for a singing gig this weekend. I've spoken to her a couple of times about some issues with SS and we chit chatted a bit as well. I am hanging out with SS tonight, so I will probably hear from her later and tomorrow as well.

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Denver