I say you need to buy something for v day. Just make sure that the intamacy of the gift matches your sitch.
The day can't pass without some type of thought IMHO...
I was thinking of a non romantic type card. Like a secret admirer type card. I also have thought about waiting to see if she gives me one first.
Me - 39 yrs old Wife - 39 yrs old Married - 18 years Together - almost 21 year Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10 Bomb Dropped in May 2010 Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out