Awww... Gypsy, how are you doing for real??? I'm so sorry.
I can tell you all day long that papers are just papers but I know that is painful. Very painful. And there isn't a lot of positive thinking that will take that sting away immediately. God, your H is a moron.
Unfortunately, though, you are going to need to move on from numb. You need to pick yourself up (after properly allowing yourself to feel the pain) and brush yourself off and start making a plan.
