Thanks Chrysalid. It is helpful to know that others have been able to process through this successfully.

I just want everyone to know, that I'm not sitting here blame shifting for the collapse of my M. I have spent 3+ months beating the crap out of myself for fing things up! I'm dealing with some terrible things that would throw ANYONE off for at least a day or two. I haven't even had 48 hours to deal with it or process it.

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Denver


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce