NO!!!!! I do not agree with the rose, sweetie. I know that you want to push past conversation. I know that so much, but you need to be patient. You need to keep going with the conversations. These conversations are so, so important because you are building the foundation back. Whether she realizes it or not, that is what you are doing.

Listen, you have gotten further with your foundation than I have. I still have that work to do. So in actuality, I am no further than you are. I know you want her with you, I know you want to talk to her all the time, I know you want to make some grand gesture. I still maintain that you ARE going to get your chance, but you need to build the foundation to hold that grand gesture up.

Stay the course, sweetie. That's what you have to do. I don't have an issue with you calling her at all. You are definitely at THAT place.

I'm so praying for you 2Step.

LIS


Me- 40
H - 43
M - 5
T - 14
Separated 2/5/11