2step,
I wish you luck buddy and congrats on coming to the point that the "lists" are not going to be an issue. Denver is right. Nothing in life is black and white, nothing. Years ago, I told my wife that if she ever left, she better just keep walking because she would not be welcome here again. Now, who looks like the *ss??? Uh, that would be me!

Good luck with your contact. I will hoping for the best. Your sitch gives me hope. Your words of wisdom give me comfort. Thanks!

BITS never walk alone!

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...