That's good advice Lotus. thanks again for checking in on me! I told W about the site with the lifetime dialog questions and she was amazed (35000 questions or so). She said she'd be ready to start these when the depression starts lifting. Hopefully soon.
It's funny, when we were separated the 2nd half of last year, I think we grew closer and started piecing towards Nov/Dec. Some of W's fog started clearing, at least a little, and she could admit she loved me deep down. We had started getting a little physical (no ML though ) which helped fill my love buckets and I was able to DB pretty well. A couple of big mistakes on my part moved us back some, but things were slowly moving forward.
We both agreed a six month lease would be best for now. Only problem is that we live in a huge college town, so a lot of the leases are designed for students Aug-May. Might have to sublease if one of the apts I looked at falls through.
I've decided to go get some flowers and a card for Vday tonight. Probably not roses, but something semi-romantic, at least friendly. We both believe Vday is more of a Hallmark holiday, so I'll probably get her a friendship or thinking of you card. Based on our sitch I think this will go over well without being too pursuing.
Me 43 W 38 M 5 T 7 SD20 S15, S13 with 1st W ILYBNILWY June 2010 Separation/Bomb July 2010 Divorce Feb 8, 2011
) which helped fill my love buckets and I was able to DB pretty well. A couple of big mistakes on my part moved us back some, but things were slowly moving forward.