We always enjoyed chatting back and forth and still do.
Likewise. We used to talk to each other several times a day but it got lost along the way and now H is really quiet and reserved (he was always this way and I was the more social one) but he does share quite a bit when we get into convos.
Originally Posted By: goodattitudegirl
I think that once you get to the point where you KNOW that you are OK with moving on if you have to (note, I wrote "moving on", not "moving forward") your attitude changes a bit, you are willing to take more risks with H (like I did when I began flirting a lot with XH), and you turn the tables on them.
Moving on noted! I'm feeling ok with this cos I know I have a lot to look forward to with my career and I am setting myself up very well in that regard. That will provide the direction I need. I am more secure in career than I have ever been. My health is on the upturn, thanks be to God. I have wonderful family and friends. I am at the point where I am feeling happy and positive and thinking what do I have to lose here? At this point H is lost to me anyway.
H has been here this morning and fixed the alarm. The interaction was very comfortable. he is still the husband in some ways.
S called this morning and he told me H has a couple of options up his sleeve once D has her licence which include moving for work. I'm wondering if that's the point that he has made with ow, telling her he may move on at that stage.
How about swimming? My mum knows H may be there and she says she's fine. I was thinking it was a shame Mum will be there but it could be good cos H will see she has no malice towards him. That's not til April so I should manage a couple of positive interactions by then anyway with darks in between.
