bolt, i KNOW how hard it is to quell the jealousy. My husband was texting OW who was my FRIEND at the time in excess of 1400 text a month and in front of me at the house, while were out etc. and when he moved upstairs i could hear his phone buzz all hours of the night knowing it was her.. he 'claims' they were talking so much because she just ended her relationship and she could relate to our situation and was offering him support.. (sound familiar?) It drove me insane !! Before DB i did everything wrong, everything! i threatened him , i begged him and pleaded with him to stop texting her, i yelled, i tried ignoring him and it didn't stop and he DID resent me.. and in the end they had a PA that i only found out about through finding his chat logs. I should have made myself more available to him and been the woman he wanted to be with, not her but i did everything wrong, I could have turned the situation around I realize that now and like 2step said, cheaters will cheat no matter what so you just have to DB your a$$ off and hope for the best.
try to keep the insecurities in check and just concentrate on your goals.. you can do this. good luck to you
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