Bolt, I love your progress and patience... But I hate the disrespect your W is showing. Texting OM in front of you?!?! I don't care what he is or is not to her. If it hurts you or makes you unhappy it's unacceptable IMO.
What you do from here is up to you. Do what's best for Bolt.
How would your W feel if Bolt was seeing/texting OW? Would she put up with it? Only you know!
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012