CW - I like GAG's idea about making the aquarium family fun, naming the fish and all...first and foremost it would be a nice family bonding thing for you and you kids and it would be a reminder to your H as to how much of the family life he is missing.

And that was clever of you to give H the change of address card. Time for them to take care of these things and not to rely on us...we are not their mothers. I finally sent an email to my H to please change his phone number with his dentist because yesterday I got yet another appointment reminder call...enough already.

(((hugs)))

M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO